08 January 2009
I fully let go of the desire
I fully let go of the desire to change my family. I love and respect them as they are
Because I recognize that the Creator made each of us unique for a purpose, I let go of the desire to change my family. I see the beauty in each one of them and love and respect them as they are.
I let go of the tendency to view my children as pawns, put on Earth for my personal happiness and fulfilment. Instead, I recognize that they are a trust from Above and that they have been loaned to me for a brief time while they develop into their purpose.
While it's true that loving them and watching them grow brings me great joy, they are not the source of my happiness. I have a purpose that includes them but extends far beyond them.
They, too, have a purpose that extends beyond me. I let go of the wish to bend them to meet my desires, knowing that doing so would minimize their potential. I love them so much that I can release them to find and to be their own best selves.
The same holds true for my spouse. After years of sharing a roof (a table, a bed, a bank account...), it is easy to forget the appeal of this person I chose to be my partner. I remind myself, often and consciously, of the qualities that drew me to this person in the first place.
While I value communication and recognize the importance of addressing issues in a kind and timely manner, I focus on finding solutions that accommodate my spouse's natural character. This focus is important to me because I recognize and respect the value of that which God created.
Self-Reflection Questions:
1. Do I value my family as they are?
2. Do I minimize my children's potential by trying to bend them to my wishes?
3. Do I consciously remind myself of those qualities which drew me to my spouse?
Because I recognize that the Creator made each of us unique for a purpose, I let go of the desire to change my family. I see the beauty in each one of them and love and respect them as they are.
I let go of the tendency to view my children as pawns, put on Earth for my personal happiness and fulfilment. Instead, I recognize that they are a trust from Above and that they have been loaned to me for a brief time while they develop into their purpose.
While it's true that loving them and watching them grow brings me great joy, they are not the source of my happiness. I have a purpose that includes them but extends far beyond them.
They, too, have a purpose that extends beyond me. I let go of the wish to bend them to meet my desires, knowing that doing so would minimize their potential. I love them so much that I can release them to find and to be their own best selves.
The same holds true for my spouse. After years of sharing a roof (a table, a bed, a bank account...), it is easy to forget the appeal of this person I chose to be my partner. I remind myself, often and consciously, of the qualities that drew me to this person in the first place.
While I value communication and recognize the importance of addressing issues in a kind and timely manner, I focus on finding solutions that accommodate my spouse's natural character. This focus is important to me because I recognize and respect the value of that which God created.
Self-Reflection Questions:
1. Do I value my family as they are?
2. Do I minimize my children's potential by trying to bend them to my wishes?
3. Do I consciously remind myself of those qualities which drew me to my spouse?
In Section: Personal reflection - This article belongs to category: Exercises
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By keeping organized and utilizing my time wisely, procrastination melts away Living an ordered life helps me accomplish my goals. I am so happy that I am in control of my projects and goals. Being productive is important to me because I want to live an active and purposeful life and when I reach my goals, I feel proud of myself. In order to be productive in my life, I keep organized. It is important for me to find ways to organize my desk, to remove paper clutter from my life, and to arrange my home into a peaceful environment. I do not put off tackling chores because I know that my neatness will make completing any given task easier. By managing my time wisely, I stay on track. Using calendars to mark important dates and meetings, writing schedules in my planner, and setting deadlines for myself, are all ways of making sure I use my time wisely. Completing tasks is so much easier because I choose to manage my time effectively. When I procrastinate, I feel frozen by inaction, but I can overcome this feeling. By keeping organized and using my time wisely, procrastination melts away. Warmth spreads from my fingers to my toes. All of that pent up energy is released and I am free to complete my projects. It is such a relief to be organized. The systems I have in my life make my daily chores more manageable. I am able to classify projects and accomplish them in a sensible way. Effectively using my time means I can get even more accomplished and by finishing my tasks, I am prepared for the excitement of a new challenge. Self-Reflection Questions: 1. How can I introduce more order into my life? 2. Have I invested enough energy into managing my time effectively? 3. How can I keep organized so I can eliminate procrastination in my life? |
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